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A filter for objective reality

Relational Reality

Most folks live in a fog of subjective fiction created around and floating above the shallow pond of personal desire and a vague sense of ought. No reason to live like that!

No reason to wonder why there is no purpose to life. No reason to do settle for a short lived temporary happiness and then fall back into a life in disappointment.

There is objective truth independent of opinion or circumstance. There is the potential of living in Relational Reality which changes everything for amazing good!


Public Unions

The greatest issue no one is talking about within the “shadow government” is public unions.

Whenever you have a group of people who can vote themselves a raise at the expense of other people with only marginal accountability, you have a recipe for oppression and a government which hides accountability.

Today there is a whirlpool of money being sucked from the producers of wealth in America; the small business persons, those who are middle management in large businesses, artist who are making a living at their art, being pull into the unaccountably of bureaucracy.

Our country is dangerously close to being a dictatorship under the guise of a democracy.

The elected officials no longer have enough courage to stand against the entrenched unionized bureaucracy.

The answer is simple to out law public employee unions.

Who has the courage?



How long will people be willing to live in the subjective fiction of personal preference?

There is an objective reality.

There is objective truth.

Something cannot come from nothing.

Nothing is: the absence of all……no physical reality, no energy, no laws of physics, no time… the absence of all! Nothing cannot produce something!!!!!!!!!

There has always been something……..The Creator………..

Live with it !!!!!!!

Anxious? Frustrated? Angry? Disappointed?

These things seem to spring from false expectations.When we expect something or someone to behave in certain way and it does not happen in accord with our expectations.

When, no matter how hard we work or invest ourselves to a relationship or circumstance and our desired outcome does not well….come out.
When we are or feel helpless to make or force the change we desire emotional darkness descends.

When that someone does not respond in the way we wish creates a whole bath of negative emotions.

Where is the emotional center point of stability if our lives are truly just a subjective compilation of physical experience translated through a self centered filter?

There is a path for Positive Healthy Relational Reality.


The New American Lap Dog!

The New 21st Century American Breed is cuddly, attractive and harmless. It lives only to be comforted and comfort.

Has its lineage in the ancient past (wolves who were outcast from other packs). It is  recognized by many as the most attractive breed of modern times.

Over many  lustrums  this breed provided not only for themselves, but many others. Still they willingly gave up their ability to do so for security.

This Breed can also be identified by its gentle demeanor and willingness to accept ownership from any who provide basic subsistence.

You can identify this modern Breed by its behavior or willingness to give up its freedom for gentle stroking, calming verbal commands as well as meager gifts of food, health, sensuality and comfort.

This new breed has been carefully modified from the former aggressively independent, yet temperate animals selected from a cross sections of many different breeds.

Being self identified and self selected through a willingness to surrender freedom, this breed’s desired behavior can be reenforced by giving them ever more progressive treats.

They rapidly lose the ability to provide for themselves. At this point one can comfortably misuse and abuse their trust with no consequence.

This New Breed is attractive from a distance, but the closer and more personally involved you get, the more they require of you.

The more attention you give to it, the more it demands.

These animals have minimal demands place upon them. But demand much from those who provide for them.

They rapidly reproduce to such an extent no single person or family can house this new Breed for long.

The only way to care or provide for this new Breed is to allow the greater community to collect ever-growing resources from those still aggressive enough to provide for themselves and others

This is not a self-sustaining breed. It requires a master or a more aggressive breed to provide for it to survive.

Unfortunately this breed becomes an increasing burden upon its master and as attractive as this breed seems, for it to survive, the master must take ever-increasing control of its behavior.

This Breed has a diminishing intelligence and each generation has a reduction in skills and abilities, to provide for themselves.

Some Breeds are just a failure regardless good intent!


Change of Profession….. not retirement! :)

As I approach this change of profession, I have been reviewing some old material to help me focus my new career as a writer. A writer is an artist who uses words instead of paint or musical notes.

Genuine art reflect the world, events, relationships, times and emotions of the environment and society of the artist. Recognition of the artist depends upon how the art is realized, identified or creates empathy with those who come in contact with it.

There are two components to art. One is the art itself. Two is getting the art to the general public and to those who will accept and appreciate it. Both are components to art. Just as communication, to exist requires the transmitter and the receptor. Without both it does not exist.

I have no idea how well my writings will be accepted or even meet my above definition of art. I do know I have some thoughts which need to be said, expressed in such a way those who read them will be affected to reflect reality.

For several decades I have been successful in creating and managing organizations that exist solely for the benefit of others. Over those years I discovered some basic keys for success. It is my plan to implement these same keys as a writer. The keys follow.

1. Always be positive, beware of negativity
2. Decide upon true dreams and goals………create the plan to realize them.
3. Take Action! Do something each day to accomplish the dreams.
4. Learn! To write better, understand what the publisher are looking for, understand the hunger of the general population for your style of art. Your niche.
5. Be persistent……Work hard means hours………when you would like to be doing something else……
Success is a Marathon!!!!!!!!!
6. Analyze details
7. Focus time and money: both are in short supply
8. Innovate! Be Different to be noticed.
9. Deal and Communicate with people effectively, understanding those things which motivate others.
10. Above all be honest! Be Dependable. Take personal responsibility!

If you are reading this, it is because you may become one of my treasured friends (does not matter if you are a relative or not). Love (self sacrificing for the benefit of the other) is the most accurate reflection of the Creator of all things. It does not matter whether you place me in the same spot in your relationships.

Love is such a great thing! I can give it without reservation and it just grows in my person, my heart! So I have more to give! I know of nothing else which grows as personal possession when you give it away! The more you give the more you have! Amazing!!!!

I love you! Yep, just got some more! 

Now if you doubt my love, all you have to do is call. I will do all within my wisdom to help you.

The Creator who is both outside and inside of time and physical reality bless you with tenderness, gentleness, goodness, kindness, love, acceptance and forgiveness!!!!!!!!!! 

Same Sex Marriage?

First and foremost, marriage by its very nature can only exist between a man and a woman.
I know that sounds narrow to many today but it is no more narrow than saying trees are made of wood.
It is just a fact of reality. We can say a Pine tree is made from glass as much as we want, some may even come to believe it’s true but that does not change the reality.

Every society which has ever had a written language has defined marriage as between male and female. None have ever identify homosexual relationships as marriage.

Now don’t shoot the messenger. People of the same sex who love each other and wish to make a permanent life commitment to each other can do so no one, nothing can stop them.

But MARRIAGE is the word which MEANS, IS DEFINED AS, THE UNIQUE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN A MAN AND A WOMAN. People of the same sex do not qualify under the definition.

Does that mean they are lesser people? NO

Does it mean they cannot enter into a committed relationship with someone they love? NO of course not.
I remember the sixties when folks of different sexes started living together without being married. They said a piece of paper did not make a bit of difference. Their love and commitment was all that was needed.

All it means is that the definition of the word marriage historically, currently and in the English language precludes same sex marriages.

It is just reality. Sorry.

Same sex couples can be bonded together, linked forever, signed, sealed and delivered to each other but to pretend that a tree is made of glass is as foolish to pretend that same sex couples and heterosexual couples are the same thing.

The emotional, physical and opposite tension is by the nature of those involved is missing with same sex couples.

Even as the tension and struggle of exercise is good and necessary for the body to be strong and healthy; By the very nature of human beings two sexes; male and female being socially publicly committed together in the dynamic tension of otherness advances human growth; emotionally, intellectually and compassionately for both the individuals and society…. and that is marriage.